A grandmother of six enjoys being
an honorary grandparent to the foster children she
transports.
Cindy Bare became interested in foster care
when ministry directors Chuck and Sandy Mingonet first shared the
intent of launching a foster care ministry at First Baptist Church
of Woodstock three years ago. Due to her age and level of energy,
Cindy wondered if there was a way for her to serve other than
actually fostering children. "I didn't know what to expect from
attending orientation and if I could be a part of this ministry
because of the limited amount of things I am able to do," said
Cindy. After attending orientation she was excited to learn of the
various roles and opportunities available as a volunteer. "I
thought I could do something to help support these families and
children in ways that perhaps others couldn't."
As a youth pastor's secretary for a number of
years as well as being the proud grandparent of six grandchildren,
five boys ages 10-16 and an infant girl, Cindy's experiences with
children and youth prepared her to serve in this ministry. Cindy
was assigned to a group of families and would be contacted to
provide food and supplies as families received placement of
children. Six months passed before she received her first real
opportunity to serve - providing transportation for a little girl.
At the time of Madisson's placement she needed transportation to
school while her foster parent taught at another school. "This is
how I became a transporter and I drove her every day for the last
month of school that year," Cindy explains. "It was rewarding way
to spend 20 minutes once or twice a day as needed. I can do this. I
can drive children," thought Cindy.
"At first Madisson wouldn't talk to me. Then I
started to ask her questions about her favorite thing she did at
school that day, what do you love most about school and do you have
any hobbies. Understanding I couldn't ask personal questions, I was
interested to learn what she was interested in." Cindy was able to
make a lasting impression by sharing one of her hobbies with
Madisson. "Some of the children in Madisson's class were learning
to knit and she couldn't quite figure it out. One morning she saw
me knitting while waiting to take her to school. I got her some
yarn and taught her how to finger knit. That was something we could
do together and it was fun."
"I love being with all the children I have
transported and staying in touch with them as much as
possible. In mid-September, I had the privilege of attending
the adoption party of Madisson Dittus. Like my own grandchildren, I
enjoy being an honorary grandparent to all of the foster children I
serve by attending their events and programs when I can-and
especially if their parents or grandparents are not able to."
Cindy expresses the need for more volunteers to
be willing to serve in this ministry, especially transporters to
take children to school, counseling and doctors' appointments. "The
need for transporters depends on the needs of the families and
children and their schedules." Last year, Cindy and Sandy Mingonet
spoke to the senior adult ladies at church encouraging their
involvement as Community of Care volunteers. "I feel seniors are an
untapped group of people that could easily provide transportation
for children. This group could do more to keep the children in
their own schools so they do not have to encounter the disruption
of relocating to another school. You just need enough people who
are willing to drive them on a regular basis."
After two and half years and serving 12-15
children of all ages ranges, Cindy shares how much she enjoys being
a transporter. "I am right where I should be, and emotionally I
want to do more." She offers the following advice to those
considering volunteering or supporting the ministry in any way, "Go
in with your eyes, mind and heart wide open. You don't have to be a
foster parent or even keep a child in your home, but there is
always a way for you to help these families and children through
volunteering."