A volunteer shares how
God has blessed her family with a legacy of fostering and
adoption.
God has blessed Jacqui Jackson's
immediate and extended family with the legacy of fostering and
adoption. She shares through her life experiences why serving as a
volunteer in this ministry truly has her heart.
"I was in an orphanage for one week in
Bogota, Colombia, in foster care for five weeks and then went
straight home to live with my momma and daddy. I was adopted from
Colombia in 1976, and my sister Jessica was adopted in 1979," said
Jacqui. She further explains that she is not biologically related
to anyone in her family and that she does not use labels when
describing those close to her. "I don't know if my sister and I are
biologically related. God has made us family and she is my sister
with no tags attached."
As an adult, Jacqui thought the
opportunity for children was not God's plan for her. Due to a
medical condition, she was unable to have children. So the hope of
adoption was always a thought, but Jacqui confesses it took an act
of courage and a leap of faith. "I adopted Bella from birth five
years ago. She was born on National Adoption Day which I believe
was not by accident. God brought about the exact family He wanted
for her. I look at Bella now and can relate - I had a birth father,
a foster dad and I have my everyday daddy that God chose for
me."
While seeking opportunities to travel on
a mission trip, Jacqui's foster mom in Colombia, who she is still
very close to, shared with her a program where children who had
been in the FANA orphanage can come back and serve. Jacqui felt
this was tailored exactly for someone like her. In the fall of
2009, she traveled to Colombia to the orphanage where her life
began. This was an emotional journey that had now come full
circle.
"I went on a mission trip there for 10
days and had the opportunity to spend time with the foster family
that served with the orphanage that cared for me. This was the
first time I had been back to Bogota, Colombia since the day I had
been adopted. I stayed with my foster mom, Marta, and enjoyed time
with my (foster) sisters, one of whom has since adopted a little
girl, and my (foster) brother who now works at the American Embassy
in Bogota - the same one my parents had visited in order to
receive my visa so I could travel back to the United States.
In 2010, Jacqui was invited to attend a
birthday celebration for the family she was a nanny for. While
meeting other family friends at the party, a little baby girl
grabbed at the hearts of Jacqui and her husband, Jeff. At the time
they did not know the family or this child's story. "The mother and
father were fostering through FaithBridge, which I had never heard
of before. The newborn baby was only a few months old. Jeff, Bella
and I took her tiny little hands while she sat in her car seat
and we prayed over her that God would get her exactly where she
needed to be." Jacqui shares how it was a "God thing" to meet this
FaithBridge foster family. "The family took in this child, loving
her completely while waiting to hear God's final determination. Now
this family who has raised her for the last two years is on the
road to adopting her."
Jacqui admits that James 1:27 is their
family's favorite Bible verse. Obeying the command to look
after orphans, Jeff and Jacqui considered whether to foster or
adopt and soon began the adoption process again. "We actually
started this adoption process prior to the premiere and launch of
Fostering Together at North Point Community Church, where we
attend." With their adoption process underway, the Jacksons knew at
that time they were not being called to foster, but were called to
support those that did. "I immediately volunteered as a Resource
Coordinator with Fostering Together. It seemed appropriate to be
involved in this ministry as God had ministered to me as a child
providing me a family."
The Jacksons celebrated the arrival of
their son, Isaac Albert Jackson, in December. Jacqui shares,
"My dad's heartfelt prayer was that our new baby would be home in
our arms before Christmas. Through an incredible set of
circumstances, an amazing church family in Oklahoma and a
foster family whom we love and whom we now count as part of our
extended family, our son is home being loved on by his
big sister, his parents and his entire forever family. Praise
the Lord!"
Volunteering as a Resource Coordinator,
Jacqui shares how she has been able to serve families and children.
"The biggest part is just welcoming the child into their new family
and rallying around that family as a support system. It is
interesting because people who are called to foster do not have
easy lives. They are just as busy as everybody else. My being
present in the lives of these of children and families to pray with
them, comfort them and love them is important. I am truly blessed
to serve in this community-based ministry."
Jacqui relates to her own fostering and
adoption experience and voices what she finds most rewarding
working in this ministry, "To me, the most rewarding thing is when
the best determination for a child is made and that child can
finally be settled. In the end it is all about family because God
is way bigger than blood. God is way bigger than
geography. And, God is way bigger than race."
Jacqui offers the following advice to
those considering volunteering or supporting the ministry in any
way, "Just jump in and do it. I felt I had a fairly full plate at
the time, but God made room in my life to minister to these
families. The needs are being met by a small few but if a big many
were there to volunteer so many more children and families could be
served. If God has ever whispered the idea of ministering through
volunteering, fostering or adopting in a believer's ear, it is not
a matter of if, but when. He is doing it because
He has a child with your name written on their heart at some level,
capacity or fashion. The best thing to do is pray for the courage
to take that first step and God will be there to take care of the
rest."